What is male squirting?
Male squirting is a gush or spray of clear, thin fluid from the urethra during intense sexual stimulation. It looks nothing like semen: it's watery, often plentiful and comes in spurts or a steady stream. Most men who experience it describe an overwhelming, almost unbearable sensation right before, followed by deep relaxation.
It usually happens in one of two ways: by continuing to stimulate the head of the penis after ejaculation, or during long, intense prostate stimulation. Neither is the same as an ejaculation, and it can happen with or without one.
Squirting vs ejaculation vs pre-cum
| Looks like | Comes from | When | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Ejaculation | White, thick, a teaspoon or so | Prostate, seminal vesicles, testes | At orgasm |
| Pre-cum | Clear, sticky, a few drops | Cowper's glands | During arousal |
| Male squirting | Clear, watery, can be a lot | Mostly the bladder (see below) | Usually after orgasm, with continued stimulation |
What is the fluid?
Honest answer: there is very little research on male squirting specifically. What we do know comes from studies on female squirting. Using ultrasound before and after, Salama and colleagues (2015) showed that the bladder fills during arousal and is empty after squirting, so the fluid largely comes from the bladder; small amounts of prostate-derived components were also found in women. Many sex researchers assume male squirting works the same way: a heavily diluted fluid from the bladder, released because the muscles that normally hold it back relax under intense stimulation.
So is it pee? Chemically it is probably close to very dilute urine. But it's released in a different way and context than peeing, it's usually clear and odourless, and for the people who enjoy it that distinction matters far more than the chemistry. Read our article on whether squirting is pee for the full science.
Can all men squirt?
Not all men will, and no reliable numbers exist. Plenty of men report that they managed it after a few tries once they knew what to do, while others never get past the sensitive phase after orgasm. Like with women, relaxation and not stopping at the "I need to pee" sensation seem to be the deciding factors. Our article on whether all women can squirt explains the same pattern in women.
How to try it, step by step
- Prepare. Pee beforehand, put down a towel or waterproof sheet, and give yourself time. Rushing never works.
- Use plenty of lube. A silicone or thick water-based lube. The head of the penis gets very sensitive, and friction makes it painful instead of intense.
- Build up normally. Masturbate or let your partner stimulate you until you're close to orgasm, or until you ejaculate.
- Keep going, focus on the head. After ejaculation, keep stimulating the glans with a lubed palm in slow circles, or by wrapping it in a lubed cloth and sliding it back and forth. This is the hard part: the first 30 to 60 seconds can feel too intense.
- Breathe through it. Long breaths out, relax your thighs and pelvic floor, and don't pull away. The sensation changes after a while into a deep pressure.
- Let the urge happen. You'll feel a strong urge to pee. Don't hold back: gently bear down and let it go.
- Aftercare. Most men feel completely drained afterwards. Drink some water and take it easy.
The prostate route
Some men squirt during long prostate stimulation, with a finger or a curved prostate toy, without ever touching the penis. The prostate sits about 5 cm inside, on the front wall towards the belly button. Go slowly, use plenty of lube, trim nails and use toys with a flared base. This route takes more practice but some men find it produces more intense results.
For partners: how to help him squirt
- Keep your rhythm steady once he's in the intense phase. Changing technique is the fastest way to lose it.
- Use a lot of lube and a soft, open hand rather than a tight grip.
- Reassure him: the urge to pee is the sign he's close, and a wet bed is the goal, not a problem.
- Read our partner guide on how to make a woman squirt: the same principles of build-up, pressure and letting go apply.
Is it safe?
Yes, for healthy adults. The fluid is harmless, and the technique only involves sensitive skin, so lube and a gentle touch are what matters. Stop if anything feels painful rather than intense, if you see blood, or if you feel burning when peeing afterwards; then talk to a doctor. With prostate play, never force anything and only use toys made for anal use.
Sources: Salama et al., Journal of Sexual Medicine (2015); Inoue et al. (2022); Pastor & Chmel, Clinical Anatomy (2022); Hensel et al. (2024); Påfs et al., Sexual Medicine (2024).
Frequently asked questions
Can men squirt?
Yes. Many men can release a clear, watery fluid, usually by continuing stimulation of the head of the penis after orgasm or through intense prostate stimulation.
Is male squirting the same as ejaculation?
No. Ejaculation is white, thick semen at orgasm. Male squirting is a clear, watery fluid that usually comes after orgasm, often in larger amounts.
Is male squirt just pee?
Probably mostly very dilute fluid from the bladder, like female squirting. It is usually clear and odourless and released differently from peeing.
What does male squirting feel like?
Most men describe an overwhelming, almost too-intense sensation at first, then a deep pressure and urge to pee, followed by a strong release and relaxation.
How long does it take for a man to squirt?
After orgasm, it usually takes one to five minutes of continued stimulation of the head of the penis. The first attempts often take longer.
Why can't I squirt as a man?
The most common reasons are stopping during the too-sensitive phase, too little lube and holding back at the urge to pee.
Can men squirt without ejaculating?
Yes. Some men squirt during long stimulation before orgasm or through prostate play without ejaculating.
Is male squirting healthy?
Yes, for healthy adults it's harmless. Stop and see a doctor if it causes pain, blood or burning afterwards.
Do you need a toy to squirt as a man?
No. A lubricated hand or a lubed soft cloth over the head is the most common method. Prostate toys are an optional route.
Does The Squirting Guide cover men?
The guide focuses on female squirting, with a full track for her and a track for him as the partner. It explains the build-up, pressure and letting go that apply to both.
